Crikey Bikey - TEACH YOUR KIDS TO RIDE A BIKE WITHOUT STABILISERS

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We bought Jacob a bike for his birthday last year, one of those moments you picture in your head before it even happens. Him riding along, proud of himself, that little spark of independence starting to show. But the reality was very different.

“I’m not riding my bike without stabilisers.”

And that was it. No negotiation, no gentle persuasion, no amount of encouragement from his brothers, me, or his dad could shift him. In his mind, riding without stabilisers meant one thing. He would fall. And if he was going to fall, he simply wasn’t doing it.

I could see exactly what was holding him back. It wasn’t ability. It was confidence.

That seems to be the biggest hurdle for so many children when it comes to learning to ride a bike. It’s not always about balance or coordination. It’s about that moment where they have to trust themselves enough to get moving, to build up enough speed to stay upright, and to believe they can actually do it.

Jacob just wasn’t there yet.

When the summer holidays came around, I knew I wanted to try again. Not by pushing him, but by finding a way to make him feel safe enough to give it a go. That’s when we came across the Crikey Bikey harness.

I’ll be honest, even getting him to agree to try it took some convincing. It wasn’t an instant yes. It was a reluctant, cautious “maybe” that eventually turned into a very hesitant attempt.

The difference was immediate.

The harness meant I could hold onto him while he rode, so in his mind, he wasn’t going to fall. That safety net changed everything. He wasn’t thinking about what could go wrong anymore, he was just focusing on pedalling.

And slowly, something shifted.

We started off giving him full support, holding him the whole time. Then, little by little, we loosened our grip. A second here, a moment there. Each time, he went a bit further without even realising it.

Until one moment, he was doing it completely on his own.

When he realised, his first reaction was pure panic. He stopped, looked back at us, completely horrified that we weren’t holding on. But then it clicked. He’d just ridden his bike by himself.

That moment right there made everything worth it.

The truth is, falling off is part of learning. It always has been. But Jacob is a cautious child. He thinks things through, sometimes a little too much, and if something feels risky to him, he would rather not try at all. The harness didn’t just support him physically, it gave him the confidence to take that first step mentally too.

And that’s what made all the difference.

Now, he’s riding confidently and actually enjoying it, which is something I honestly wasn’t sure we’d get to so quickly.

Crikey Bikey itself has a lovely story behind it as well. It was designed and invented by a school girl as part of a project, and with the support of her family, it’s now something other families can use to help their children learn too. It’s priced at £19.99 and is available online and in places like Halfords and Evans Cycles.

We’ll be using it again soon when it’s Summer’s turn to learn and ride her bike, and I already feel more prepared knowing what a difference it made for Jacob.

Sometimes, it’s not about pushing them to be brave. It’s about giving them the right support so they can find that bravery for themselves.